How to Write a Love Letter

Quick, how many of you out there have ever written a genuine, quill-and-parchment, mailed-with-a-stamp and sealed-with-a-kiss love letter? That's what I thought. Ever since the advent of the internet, honest-to-goodness love letters-which once were spun out to novelistic lengths by nineteenth-century masters of the form-have become as rare on the ground as spotted leopards (or whatever endangered species suits your fancy). Here's how to write a love letter that will make your enamored swoon with rapture and, yes, surprise.

Use classy pen and paper. Somehow, a love letter written with a blue Bic on office stationery bearing the motto "You want it done WHEN?" doesn't exactly invoke violins and roses. At the very least, roust up some heavy-stock, elegant-looking paper, and if you must use an ordinary pen, choose one with a classy color of ink.

Open with a tender salutation. "Dear Sirs" or "To Whom It May Concern" are businesslike and direct, but they don't quite set the proper tone of intimacy. Instead, try "my dearest ____" or "my beloved____," and be sure to get the name of the person right (you'd be surprised how many first-time letter writers flub this small but important detail).

Pour out your heart. A love letter isn't like a high-school essay, with an introduction, expository text, and recapitulation. What you're aiming for here is an inexhaustible, stream-of-consciousness recitation of the virtues of your beloved, contrasted with your own inimitable shortcomings. As a general rule: the higher the virtue-to-shortcoming ratio, the classier the letter.

Stay focused. If you find yourself running out of material, don't resort to the dental checkup you had the other day or that guy at work, you know, the really annoying one? Who always plays his radio so loud? And I've complained and complained to the boss but I guess no one at this company takes me seriously? Instead, take a break until your romantic fount is replenished and you can get back to that virtue/shortcoming thing.

Close with a tender valediction. As in step #2, the cumulative effect of your heartfelt love letter will be completely negated by a lame "regards," "sincerely" or "respectfully yours." Consider something more pungent, such as "if only 'twere written in blood, your abased servant, on whose unworthy head I bid thee bestow thine blessing," etc. etc.

Hire a calligrapher. Once you've chosen the proper envelope and stamp-again, consult rule #1-consider hiring a master of fruity scripts to inscribe your beloved's name and address. The handwriting should be fancy enough to make the mailman squint, but not so fancy that your beloved thinks she's received an invitation to a Bar Mitzvah.

How to Say I Love You

Ready to take the plunge and introduce that most romantic phrase into your relationship's dialogue? Saying "I love you" for the first time is a big step; learn how to say I love you to your significant other.


Decide if you do, indeed, love your mate. Most partners can see through a halfhearted 'love ya' - which won't do your relationship any good.

Consider the possibility that your partner might not respond with the hoped-for 'I love you, too.' If you can handle that and still want to express your love, go for it. If you can't, then consider holding off until either you're certain your partner will respond as hoped or you're OK with it if he or she doesn't.

Think about how you'd like to let your partner know the way you feel, keeping in mind that uttering those words may give birth to a lifelong memory. If spontaneity works for you, wait for the perfect moment. If you're more methodical, consider writing a love letter first, then telling your mate in person the next time you get together.

If you decide in advance when to reveal your love, plan a special evening around it. Such relationship milestones warrant celebration.

When you tell your partner you love him or her, do so while making total eye contact, and while you are holding each other. This gives the moment the intimacy it deserves.

How to Make Love

Birds do it. Bees do it. But how do they know how to make love? Instinct. Humans have it too. It's an inborn instinct to procreate with the ones we love. And that instinct has led to over six billion people on this earth, so it can't be all that difficult. But if you need a guide on how two people "connect," then here are a few steps on how to make love.

Find a willing and clean partner. Ideally, you and the partner will be in a serious, monogamous relationship. While casual sex could be fun, it can lead to painful or life-threatening sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and unwanted pregnancy

Discuss the possibility of sexual relations with your partner. Find out their sexual history, and discuss if you are mature enough and emotionally ready to have sex. If you can't say "I love you" to the person, you are not ready to have sex.

Purchase birth control and STD prevention. The female can choose from a variety of birth control methods, while the male should purchase condoms.


Find the right moment. Making love is often a spontaneous event, and too much planning can ruin the mood. However, you want to be sure you are in a safe environment where no one will barge in on you.

Slowly undress and begin foreplay. Foreplay is the kissing and touching that occurs before sex. While the male will want to jump right in to the sex, the female requires a bit of warming up. Think of the man as a microwave and the woman as a crockpot--they take different times to get to the same "temperature."


Lay horizontally on a bed. The man can be on top of the woman, his body in between her legs, and their genitals aligned. This is called the missionary position, and it is one of many different positions for making love.


Insert the erect penis into the vagina. If the vagina is dry and it is hard to insert, use a few drops of lubricant.Engage in a rhythmic, tandem motion with your hips, carefully and slowly moving the penis in and out of the vagina. It may take a few minutes (or months) to get your rhythm togetherAs partners near climax, the rhythm will increase, as will the body heat and verbal declarations of love. Upon climax, the male will release sperm into the condom or vagina, and his penis will deflate.


The male will roll off the partner. Hold each other, exchange your promises of love and enjoy the afterglow

கொங்கணாபுரம் அருகே சாலையை சீர் செய்யக்கோரி பொதுமக்கள் சாலை மறியல்

கொங்கணாபுரம் மார்ச் 17: கொங்கணாபுரம் அருகே உள்ள கொங்கணாபுரம் கச்சராயன்குட்டை பகுதியில் கோவையிலிருந்து பூனாவிற்கு மின்மோட்டார்களை ஏற்றிய லாரி நேற்று சென்றது. அப்போது அங்குள்ள வளைவில் திரும்பும்பொது ஓட்டுனரின் கட்டுப்பாட்டை இழந்து சாலைஓரம் கவிழ்ந்தது. லாரியில் வந்த தம்பம்பட்டியை சேர்த்த ஓட்டுனர் கனகராஜ் (30), கிளீனர் மணி (28), மற்றொரு ஓட்டுனர் தர்மபுரியை சேர்ந்த ஜெகன்நாதன் (32) ஆகியோர் படுகாயம் அடைந்தனர் அவர்கள் சங்ககிரி அரசு மருத்துவமனையில் சிகிச்சைக்காக சேர்க்கப்பட்டனர்.

இந்நிலையில் சம்பவம் நடந்த இடத்தில் அடிக்கடி சாலை விபத்துக்கள் ஏற்படுவதாகவும் இதனால் சாலையை சீரமைக்க வேண்டியும் அப்பகுதி பொதுமக்கள் திடீர் சாலைமறியலில் ஈடுபட்டனர். சம்பவ இடத்திற்க்கு தாசில்தார் சண்முகம், துணை தாசில்தார் தவசியன், இடைப்பாடி காவல் உதவிகள் ஆய்வாளர் சிவசங்கரன், வளர்மதி ஆகியோர் சம்பவம் இடம் சென்று, மறியலில் ஈடுபட்டவர்களிடம் பேச்சுவார்த்தை நடத்தினர். பின் அச்சாலையில் வேகதடை அமைக்க உறுதி கூரியதின் பேரில் பொதுமக்கள் சாலை மறியலை கைவிட்டு கலைந்து சென்றனர்.

நன்றி - தினகரன்

UNDERSTANDING YOUR GIRLFRIEND

Women are complex creatures, sometimes frustratingly so. There are times when we make the men in our lives want to throw up their hands in defeat and say, "I'll just never understand what women want!"

Don't give up hope. Sometimes the key to understanding your girl is to read between the lines of what she's saying to discover what she really means.

It's not entirely our fault that we have this round about way of communicating. Boys are taught from a young age that asking for what they want is the best way to get it, while girls are encouraged to use our "feminine wiles" to maneuver our way into what our heart desires.

It doesn't help that a straightforward persistent woman in our society is often tagged with unfair labels like "bitch" or "ball breaker". So instead of being direct, we sometimes take the long way to getting to what we really mean. To help you understand, there are certain things you can look for to help you decode the meaning behind your girlfriend's words.

She Wants To Be Babied

"I had a really busy day" = "I need some pampering"

When your girl complains about her long hard day, there's a good chance it's not just to get it off her chest. She wants you help her relax, but instead of just asking you for a back massage, or to run her a hot bath, she feigns helplessness so you'll be able to sweep in as her man and fix everything for her.

It's hard for a modern feminist woman to ask for help from her man. We all want to believe we can take care of ourselves, but there are times when we just want to be coddled a little bit. So, instead of being annoyed by her whining, do the smart thing and ask her what she needs to unwind. Trust me, you'll reap the rewards later.

It's Time to Talk

"I don't feel like talking" = "I really NEED to talk"

You can tell something is bothering your girl, but when you ask she says nothing is wrong. Don't be fooled, she really does need to talk. She just wants you to press her a little. If you insist on asking what's wrong it convinces her that you really want to hear about her problems and help resolve them.

Try to encourage her to open up without nagging. Instead, let her know that you are concerned and open to listening. She really does want to tell you about the fight she had with her best friend or how much getting passed over for that promotion at work upset her, but unless you show genuine interest, she'll probably keep it bottled up.

The only time this translation may not be accurate is when she's upset about something you did. In this case, she may really need some space and time to think before she confronts you with it.

She's Feeling Insecure

"I'm not jealous" = "I need reassurance"

You've just run into your ex-girlfriend while walking down the street with your current one. You can tell that the unexpected meeting has your girl frazzled, but she insists she's not threatened.

What NOT to do in this situation is accuse her of being mistrustful or joke about how cute she is when she's jealous. The right thing to do here is to reassure her of your love and devotion without being too obvious about it. Try something like, "Wow, seeing Suzy again just makes me realize how perfect you and I are together."

She Wants to Get Serious

"So are we like together?" = "I want a commitment"

Stereotypically, guys are all commitment phoebes while their girls are fervently awaiting him dropping to one knee in the perfect moment of romantic dedication. This may not be universally true, but there's a good chance she's looking toward the next stage in your relationship before you've even entertained the concept.

Not wanting to come on too fast or too strong, she'll probably be fairly hesitant to come right out and say she'd like to be your girlfriend or that she thinks that it's time you moved in together. Make it easy on her by being honest and clear about your feelings and intentions. If you're not quite ready to pledge monogamy, say so, but tell her that you think it's a big step, something you don't want to take lightly.

Ask for some time to think about it. Never make a commitment that you're not willing to follow through on. If you're not done playing the field, don't give the impression that you are. It will only lead to heartbreak.

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What is stock?

Stock is a piece of ownership of a company. When a Company needs money, which can be helpful in growing the business, they acquire extra money by selling ownership of the company in form of stocks. So if you were to buy 100% of a company's stock, you would own the whole company. If you own enough stock you also have some decision-making power within the company. Buying stock is a very popular form of investing.

What is a share?

A share is one individual piece of stock. It constitutes very acute percentage of ownership of a company. In recent months, stories of the fabulous returns by an investor must have been heard in the stock markets. Everyone could have also heard horror stories of an investor who even lost his shirt in the stock market. The reason might be that he has not chosen the stock wisely at the time of investment .So the new investors are advised to choose the stock after analyzing it properly. Invest on the stock after proper analysation. An extra zing is being added to your collection of investment. Study after study, it has been analyzed that over the long term, stocks outperform all other assets.

It clearly indicates that more earning can be generated from stocks rather than from bonds. But investor should have a risk-bearing capability in case of investments of tocks. But if you are in for the long haul, so are the potential returns. Concepts of investor need to be clear before he invests in share market.

Stocks are not only for the brilliant. Stocks are far from being rocket science. The strategies you need to know to maximize your wealth and the pitfalls you need to avoid are not beyond comprehension. Even if you feel that you don't have the time, and prefer to entrust your money to a portfolio manager or mutual fund, the least you need to know is which funds are better, how to choose your fund manager, and keep a tab on his performance.

Stocks are not only available for professional investors to invest on, but it is also for new investors who are willing to invest in stock market. A new investor needs to plan out their strategies to maximize their wealth after investing in stock market. He also needs to avoid some pitfalls while investing in share market. If the investor does not want to waste time and prefer to invest his money in mutual funds, he need not have to grab knowledge regarding ‘which funds are better’, ‘how to choose your fund manager’ and ‘how to keep a tab on his performance.

So what is a share?

Any business has a lot of assets: The machinery, buildings, furniture, stock-in-trade, cash, etc. It will also have liabilities. This is what the company owes other people. Bank loans, money owed to people from whom things have been bought on credit, are examples of liabilities. Take away the liabilities from the total assets, and you are left with the capital.

Assets - Liabilities = Capital.

A company contains assets, which include machinery, buildings, and furniture, stock –in-trade, cash etc. Company also contains liabilities, which involve Bank loans, money owed to people from whom things have been bought on credit. Deduct liabilities from assets and company is left with capital.

Assets – Liabilities=Capital

Owner invests the amount in the business, which is called capital. Profits are added to the capital as business grows. Shares or stocks are subdivision of capital. If the capital of company is Rs 10 crores (Rs 100 million), so it could be divided into 1crore(10 million) shares of Rs 10 each. Promoters who started the business hold some of the shares, and the remaining shares are hold by the investors. Investors include general mass of people who are who are involved in regular dealings of share market, mutual funds and other institutional investor.
What does this mean for an investor?

Investors need to realize that owning a share means owning a share in the business. If a common person invests in stocks, he does not invest in a market, but will investing in the equity shares of the company. He will be considered as a shareholder or part owner of the company.

As investor is shareholder of the company, he is entitled to the share of profits generated by assets of the company, or bears the loss if the company is in loss. If the investor owns 100 shares of Birla White Cements, he owns a very acute part of the shares. Since Birla White Cements has billions of shares, shareholder holds the share of its assets, liabilities, profits and losses etc.

Shares owned by the shareholder, means owning share in the business without headache of managing it. Shareholders who hold the shares of Birla White Cements, will earn profit, when the company makes good profits, or bear loss if performance of company declines, as people stop building houses or any other reason such rise of competitors which leads to the decline in demand of Birla White Cement.

What is meant by rise in value?

When the capital of the company is divided into shares of Rs 10 each, then the face value of the share is called Rs 10, When trading of shares begin in shares market, the value of the shares may go up or down, depending on the demand and supply for the stock. When everyone is looking to buy the shares, the price will go up, and if many people wan to sell the shares and nobody is ready to purchase them, then the prices will automatically fall.

Price of the share can be defined as value subscribed for a share in the market at any point of time. So the face value of shares with Rs 10 can be quoted at Rs 55(higher than the face value) or even Rs 5 (lower than the face value). If market value is multiplied by number of shares in the company, the result, which comes out, will be market capitalization. For instance, a company having 10 million shares of a face value Rs 10 and a market value of Rs 30 as on November 1, 2004, will have a market capitalization of Rs 300 million as on November 1, 2004.

Indian Bank will open over 100 branches

The public sector Indian Bank will open over 100 branches this year. Announcing this at a media conference here on Monday, executive director of the bank and chairman of Indbank Merchant Banking Services Ltd. A. Subramanian said this was in keeping with last year’s trend when the bank opened as many as 101 new branches. “ We have no problem with the RBI which readily gave the licences last year. This year also we have 45 licences already and would get another 60,” he disclosed.

Asked how many of the new branches would be located in Andhra Pradesh, he said 670 of the 1,652 branches were in Tamil Nadu and Andhra Pradesh came next with over 215 branches. The bank did business to the tune of Rs.1.25 lakh crores last year and this year’s target would be 20 per cent over that performance.

Earlier, Mr. Subramanian opened a new branch of the Visakhapatnam branch of Indbank Merchant Banking Services Ltd., a subsidiary of Indian Bank in the city which was the 20th such branch office in the country and launched indbankonline stock trading point. There were plans to open 10 more branches in the main locations across the country, he said. The Indbank provides merchant banking and advisory, stock broking, demat services and distribution of mutual fund and other investment products. It also provides services such as management of public, rights issue, offer for sale – both equity and debt issues, corporate advisory services, merges and acquisitions, loan syndication, project counselling, appraisal and feasibility studies, etc.

Giving a presentation, vice-president of the Indbank from Hyderbad K. Sridhar said for availing trading facility, the customer had to open a net banking account and demat account with Indian Bank and online trading account with Indbank. This would enable the customer to trade from any where under the internet based trading system. This would benefit all customers of the bank as they are covered under core banking solutions.

President and whole time director of Indbank P.N. Patel welcomed the gathering. Assistant General Manager and Circle Head of Indian Bank G. Sudhakar, was present.